What else can one do to experiment with sex, besides the actual sex part?
August 8, 2011 8:46 PM Subscribe
Sex question :) What else is there to experiment with, besides the act itself? Looking for as many ideas as possible.
posted by anonymous to human relations (20 answers total) 12 users marked this as a favorite
Boyfriend and I are going slow on the sex thing, for various reasons. He has lately been making comments about 'other things we can do' and I have to admit, I am not really sure what he means. We're both in our early 30s, but I have very limited experience with sex, and have not really explored my 'sexy' side that much. He's actually the first person I've been with who's really started bringing out this side of me in a way that's fun and exciting.
We're definitely interested in the full sex deal, but his comments on 'other things we can do' suggest to me that he'd like to play a little more before we get to that point. So...when he says 'other things we can do' I am wondering what that means, exactly. Can anyone give me ideas for what these 'other things' might be? Clearly, I have some work to do in exploring my sensual side, and his. Ideas welcome.