Have I been played?
April 22, 2011 2:38 PM Subscribe
I've been in country for one day and suddenly I am very popular with much younger women. Do I have "Sugar Daddy" written on my forehead or is there something else going on?
posted by anonymous to human relations (53 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
I am in an African country which shall remain nameless on a combined business/pleasure trip. This afternoon after my work meetings were over I went walking with my rather large camera to photograph a local attraction that is near my hotel.
A waiter from the hotel recognized me and offered to show me around. We walked around for a while and then went to see a traditional dance.
The dancers were all fairly young women. They were all quite interested in talking to me. They claimed to be university students. After a while one of them asked me if I would buy the dancers a drink. I didn't think the request was that unusual because they had been dancing all day and were thirsty. So I bought a round.
Fairly soon after that the party broke up. One of the girls gave me her phone number and asked me to go to another party. My guide knew where the party was so off we went.
The scene was basically a repeat of the earlier event--university age, they asked me to buy a round, etc. And of course, they were all very interested in meeting me. One seemed very interested in me.
Yada, yada, yada. we went back to my hotel to have sex. Before disrobing, she asked for a fairly insignificant amount of money. I was a bit shocked by I said okay and we had protected sex.
Later on I asked her how old she is. She said 20. I told her my age (40+). She said it was okay because I look 30 something. As she was leaving (with the money) she said to me that she would have a baby with me if I wanted.
Anyhow, I am freaking out about this. Was this girl a whore or just playing me for money? Was the whole evening a set up? WTF?