Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse.
April 18, 2011 7:49 AM   Subscribe

Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse.

I am male, spouse is female.
posted by anonymous_account to Human Relations (9 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
 
We need a lot more information. Why does it need re-igniting? What is missing? What kind of video? Subtle or more explicit? Are you looking for porn? Are you sure she'll like that?
posted by desjardins at 7:51 AM on April 18, 2011


Do you want both of you in the video? Is this a video you would make or a video you want to purchase/rent?

What does she dig? Have you done this sort of thing before? Why do you think the passion's gone?
posted by inturnaround at 7:55 AM on April 18, 2011


Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse.

To be clear, is this something she's asking for or it something you're asking for? 'Cause you probably need a whole lot more than a video to re-ignite a relationship.
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 8:02 AM on April 18, 2011


Ha. I expected to find a lot more inside. I can recommend Amelie. Those French.
posted by princelyfox at 8:06 AM on April 18, 2011 [4 favorites]


How about videos of you doing sexy things like paying the mortgage (Oh Baby!), seductively estate planning (I'm thinking of you!), and so on.

Finish the video with saying something about while these things may not be not seem sexy, that you do these things with her/for her now because you'd like to do things with her/to her for the rest of your lives - starting now.

Then flash up two tickets to whatever sexy vacation destination the two of you would like to go to. This of course requires a few things - like actually taking the time off for a vacation and making a commitment (and following through) to spend time nurturing your relationship in that way.
posted by Nanukthedog at 8:09 AM on April 18, 2011 [15 favorites]


Are you wanting to buy a video or make a video? This is really unclear.
posted by matlock expressway at 12:37 PM on April 18, 2011


I think Damage and Body Heat are both pretty hot.
posted by marsha56 at 7:49 PM on April 18, 2011


Instead of watching other people... how about starting to hint that you think she's so hot that you want to film her doing hot stuff. Then watch together and let the video get you hot to get her hot (ie., it moves you to try your damnest to please her because the video of her has got you really hot).

But yeah, we don't have enough information to know what frame of mind your partner is in.
posted by porpoise at 9:14 PM on April 18, 2011


Yeah-also, do you need to reignite your sexual relationship or your relationship overall?
posted by corb at 9:01 AM on April 19, 2011


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