Conducting an efficient job search
April 11, 2011 10:54 AM Subscribe
How do I prioritize all the tasks that come with being unemployed, from getting help to finding a job?
I feel inefficient. How do I know which tasks to prioritize and how often to do them?
For example, how crucial is it that I attend job seeker groups and networking functions that may be far away and use a lot of gas money? How much time should I spend looking online vs. networking? Should I lose a whole day of job searching to get hooked up with food stamps and electric bill assistance, because I only have $35 in the bank right now? (I do have unemployment payments coming in). Should I take a warm-body telemarketing job to survive, and then have less time to look for a better job? I feel overwhelmed and confused and then I end up being even less effective.
Has anyone ever been in this position, and if so, how did you get out? I feel like I'm missing something, maybe not even asking the right questions.
posted by anonymous to work & money (5 answers total) 13 users marked this as a favorite
From my last period of unemployment, the tips I have to offer are:
1) Plan for a period of prolonged unemployment. Hope for the best, plan for the worst kind of thing. Thus, food stamps and electrical bill assistance are actually investments. The time it takes to sign up for them will have the immediate benefit of less stress.
2) Stress. Stress is a killer and will distort everything in sight. Structure will help you maintain perspective and not get trapped in your own head or spiral down any dark mental alleys. You have tremendous value as a person regardless of your employment status and those activities will allow you to express that value and be valued.
In a job search, there probably will be a lot of rejection. If there's not a lot of rejection, you may want to push a bit harder. It's a numbers game. Don't wait for the perfect thing. Knock on doors, get them slammed in your face.
As a counterbalance to all of that rejection negativity, structured group activities will be the positive counterbalance. Maybe you got rejected (again). But you have your volunteer/group meeting coming up tonight and you're really excited about it. Balance.
You should always have something going on where someone will notice if you don't show up.
3) Perspective. Don't feel guilty or alone. A lot of people are dealing with this right now. Keep perspective. This is a time in your life. It is not your life. Say it out loud if you need to.
There is a limit to what you can do. There is a limit to the roles you are qualified for. There is a limit to how many resumes you can send in a day and a limit to the opportunities available in your area. You cannot make things happen faster than they are going to happen regardless. Don't burn yourself out rolling the boulder uphill.
Have a plan. Stick to the plan. Keep yourself healthy. Keep perspective. Be gentle on yourself and realise that you WILL get a new job. It WILL be a bit rough in the meantime. There's a lot you can do to make it LESS rough.
4) Never lose your sense of humour. If you're having a dark day, watch a comedy movie. Enjoy yourself when you can. Find free things to do. People want to hire happy people, not desperate people. Find happiness on your limited resources and the faster you find happiness, the faster you will find your next job.
posted by nickrussell at 11:07 AM on April 11, 2011 [2 favorites]