Feels like high school all over again…
April 5, 2011 1:08 PM Subscribe
How do I know where I stand with him?
posted by breckai to human relations (27 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
I met a man online a few weeks ago. Things moved relatively quickly(at least compared to my previous experiences). We started talking on the phone about a week after our initial communication, and decided to meet a few days after that(we first spoke on Thursday and on Saturday decided to get dinner on Monday). Our phone conversations were great, we have a lot in common, and we really seemed to click. He called every night up until our date just to say hi. We had a great dinner, our date went really well, in my opinion. We talked for about 2 1/2 hours about lots of different things. We didn't kiss, but we did share a hug, and he said that he'd call later. I texted him, thanking him for dinner and letting him know that I had fun. I didn't get a response, and nothing again the next day. I think the 3-day rule is silly, and I'm definitely interested in him, so I texted him Wednesday evening, asking him how he was doing. He responded and we set up a second date for Sunday night. Our second date also went really well. It seems like we never run out of things to talk about, and he continuously found reasons to touch me, grabbing my arm, poking me in the leg, grabbing my hand to look at a ring. Thing progressed, and we kissed about halfway through. At the end of the night I suggested we get together soon for dinner at my place, he said ok, maybe Wednesday. So nothing definite, and again before he left he said that he'd call later. It's now Tuesday, and I've heard nothing from him. I don't know if he's playing the waiting game, or if he's just not interested. He seems very interested when we're together, he just doesn’t follow up. I'm just wondering if he's going out with me because I'm making myself available, or if he is just spacing his calls, and I'm just more impatient than he is. What do you think?