Does this girl at work like me?
March 18, 2011 5:17 PM Subscribe
Interested in this girl at work. Trying to figure out if she likes me before I risk a weird work relationship. Snowflake details inside
posted by anonymous to human relations (29 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
There is a girl at work who works in another department from me and is a few steps below. She just graduated from college last May while I am mid thirties. I deal with her a lot via email and I think we ended up flirting. At some point she was looking up information and I asked who else she stalked online and she said "only you" then the usual hahaha.
She was/is dating a guy and has openly talked about him. We had a conversation the other day about her future lifes plans (she has certain concerns about her direction). While we talked she certainly seemed to play with her hair, she leaned in at one point when I was talking. Before we left we were looking at something in my office and I just felt electricity between us.
So now two days later we go grab lunch and she tells me she is probably breaking up with her boyfriend. It was part of a larger conversation - it didn't come out of the blue.
Lastly before that she asked when my birthday was. Later when I asked why she said she wanted to look up my horoscope - even though she thinks its mostly BS.
She has not touched me in any way yet. But we frequently banter back and forth on email about our lives, jokes, etc. We certainly get along - just not sure if that is friends or if she is interested in more.
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