We live together. How do we best play withourselves separately?
March 18, 2011 2:33 PM Subscribe
Masturbation when co-habitating hacks: How do you work out "alone time" when you're living with your SO?
posted by anonymous to human relations (42 answers total) 10 users marked this as a favorite
My GGG, awesometastic GF and I have been living together for 6 months now, and everything's going great, except...
We haven't figured out a comfortable way to work in solo fun time into our living situation. We're fine when just one of us is home, but when we're both around I think we both get self-conscious and like theres no 'space' to excuse oneself for that kind of activity and/or guilty that we're not including the other person (yes, we do that too, but sometimes you just want to bop by yourself).
So, cohabitators... what do you do when you feel the urge? Do you have a system? codewords? a sock on the door? a 'no questions asked' policy?