March 2, 2011 5:19 PM Subscribe
After talking about it a while ago and deciding to let it happen, my girlfriend had a 50 minute orgasm without any genital stimulation.
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We're both virgins and inexperienced, but not ignorant of the complications of the world of sex. She has even taken entire courses about sex for her degree. I say this because this whole thing sounds pretty incredible and people might understandably have doubts that I'm correctly describing what was going on, but I really doubt that, even as inexperienced as we are.
Anyways, I always keep my hands away from the underwear areas, and clothes always stay on. Hand-on-skin contact is limited to commonly exposed areas, e.g. arms, legs, face, neck, and recently also lower back and a little tummy. We just get really passionate and intense even with those limitations. So. Sitting on the couch today, I rubbed her lower back under her shirt for a few minutes, (well clear of the panty-line,) and I kissed her neck, and she just erupted into this incredibly long and intense orgasm. She wasn't just massively turned on, it was a legitimate orgasm. After she started I was feeling cautious and conservative, so I stopped everything except hugging and squirming a little with her when I couldn't help it. (Still, pretty mild types of movements, to be honest.) She just kept going, climax after climax. Mind you, this was all in a sitting position, her "side-saddle" on my lap--we weren't lying down. She had never "let it happen" before and it only stopped because we forced it to. I'm just wondering how the mechanics of this work. I am having a hard time finding material that talks about anything quite like this. Is this common? Is it because we're virgins and new to it? Can we expect to experience this much more? Can we expect it after we've had a lot of normal intercourse? How long could she have gone if we hadn't stopped it?
PS: It occurs to me that many people simply can't believe that orgasm without intercourse or genital stimulation is possible. That's fine, but go argue with someone else about it, I have been convinced by what I've heard/read of it, and by this experience: neither of us have any doubts that this was full orgasm.