Did my masturbation style overwork my vaginal muscles?
February 26, 2011 7:12 AM Subscribe
I am female. Someone whom I slept with complained that it was difficult to do the missionary position with me. Did my masturbation technique cause this?
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Ever since young, I've been masturbating by crossing and pressing my thighs against each other so that my clitoris gets stimulated from the pressure. By moving my legs against each other in that position a bit I can feel my vaginal muscles tensing up and (though maybe I'm imagining this) I also feel my vaginal walls moving against each other. This gets me into orgasm really quickly.
I don't have a lot of sex with partners, so the first and last time I slept with someone I cared for he complained behind my back that I was 'built wrong' and that it was difficult to do the missionary with me (he had to hitch my legs on his shoulders to do a proper penetration).
Ever since then, I've wondered if my masturbation technique caused me to overwork my vaginal muscles. Am I just 'built wrong', or did I do something to make missionary tough for penetration? Is it possible to overwork your vaginal muscles until penetration becomes difficult? Should I do something else to get off (slower) instead?