Gay for a day?
February 7, 2011 4:50 PM Subscribe
I consider myself straight, but am interested in having sex with a girl just to see what it's like. I am under the impression that lesbians are not big fans of people like me.
posted by anonymous to human relations (21 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
That's it, pretty much. I know I'm not gay; I guess I could be bi, but if I was it would be like 5%. I am mostly attracted to men and see myself marrying a man in the future. But the idea of being with a woman is interesting, and I want to check it out. I've been adventurous in plenty of other areas, so why not try this, too?
But I've heard stories about lesbians being led on by confused straight girls who wound up leaving them for men, and I don't want that to be me. I just want to have some nsa sex with someone who knows the score.
I don't want to lead anybody on, but I wouldn't want to just hook up with some random person immediately after meeting them online, either. (Not opposed to online but I'd want to get to know them a LITTLE.) Basically I have no idea how to go about this in an ethical, non-hurtful, and at least semi-private way. I also don't know how to find someone who wouldn't mind, um, educating me.
Man, I feel kind of bad for even considering this, like I'd be using the woman for my own selfish reasons. If there are women who actually get off on sleeping with straight girls I'd love to hear about it.