Ummmm, what happened?
January 24, 2011 9:12 PM Subscribe
Egad! Please give me your opinion - I don't know what to think or do... I've never handled rejection well, but I'm not sure it's rejection.
posted by anonymous to human relations (21 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
Met a guy online about 4 months ago. yeah, I know, online. Gay bodybuilding website. We hit it off. Thousands of texts, pics, emails, phone conversations, skype video sessions. Literally thousands. Everything right up to actually meeting in person.
Then, one night, he just 'disappeared' - right after I said I was gonna be in his town and would like to meet. Deleted his profile from the website, never returned my texts, silence on all fronts.
I know he's real. His skype conversations, phone calls, etc were him. I didn't think he was fake. I know people will say that it was just some dude playing with me, but we talked/texted/skyped so much that he was 'real'.
He always told me he had his 'fists up'.
But now I'm left out in the cold, confused, and have no idea what happened to him.
He hasn't returned my texts or voicemails for over a week.
I know this sounds pathetic, but can someone offer me some advice on what happened? Or more to the point, how do I move on? I just don't understand. My feelings are hurt and I'm confused.
I don't understand the silence.
How do I move on? And ummm... I know this is Metafilter - please, for once, be gentle.