What is wrong with my relationship?
January 9, 2011 6:14 PM Subscribe
RelationshipFilter: Is my partner addicted to porn, bored of our relationship or do I have fairytale expectations?
posted by anonymous to Society & Culture (20 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
I ask you all in hope that I don't have to post a question to "Ask Cupid" or "Yahoo Answers".
There's no justification for it, because I am always ready and always willing. But I do admit to being a jealous type and we are having lots of issues in other departments that I best not get in to. He spends more time frequenting adult networking sites and porn blogs than he spends actually sleeping with me. He does this every day, but sleeps with me only every few days, and only when he's in the mood. At the start, we had a lot of sex, it was very exciting and it usually lasted a good while. Now it's just plain boring, and at the rate he looks at porn, I'm wondering if he is doing it to compensate for having to be with me, I feel as though he doesn't find me attractive, which makes it hard for me to get aroused thus making the sex unenjoyable. He never admires and touches my body and says how he loves it anymore, I mightn't have so many questions if it had always been this way, but it was actually a noticeable change. Is he just bored of me and is that normal? Or is this just what men do when they are comfortable? What can I do to save it? I do love him very much and I think he loves me too, but I think I might be hanging on to the past! I don't want to trap him with me.