How did you form real friends at your 30s.
December 9, 2010 12:32 PM Subscribe
What are my blind spots, mistakes that I am not aware off. How did you form real friends at your 30s.
posted by daveg02 to human relations (19 answers total) 21 users marked this as a favorite
I live in US for 10 years now; been constantly moving like every year or two. Miss having a good circle of friends. All my friends from college have moved to different countries, married etc. I haven't seen them in years. Nobody inivtes me to anything. The accquantences I make locally seem to wither away due to my work which requires constant moving. I am Male, 31, single, never been in an relationship, I work like a horse like most immigrant do, became debt free few months back, have a decent job that pays good. Dont know why nobody calls me, even if make serious attempts to be in touch, I seem to have good conversations on the phone. but nobody calls me.
My incoming call is zero, outgoing 3000 minutes. I think everyone hates me, but I dont ask them money, I try to help if I could(people come to me only if there are extreme problems like accident, car trouble, health issues etc). I can live by myself although I breakdown twice a week when this builds up. I know this stress can kill me or definetly shorten my life, I have no relations, no gf. I hate to be the guy who is all grumpy but seriously whats the point of having a good job or ur apt if cant have a single person to call me or be friends with. Nobody inivtes me to anything. I dont do drugs, smoke, I guess nice guys finish last and get lost(atleast in my case)! Losing hope in this world!
p.s This was very embarassing to putt it out like this, but I had to, as I am alone here.