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December 6, 2010 11:05 PM Subscribe
What is going on here???
posted by goalyeehah to human relations (29 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I need a little feedback.
I have 2 woman friends. We are pretty close yet have never had a sexual relationship. Both are uniquely beautiful. When we get together they tell me pretty much everything that goes on sexually in their lives. They love to share. I can see it in their eyes.
My background.....I am pretty handsome and charismatic. People feel comfortable opening up around me. They pretty much always leave feeling better than when they first came. On a deeper level, my lover left her body in May from cancer. It was a very short, intense and deeply loving relationship. I had known her for 4 years. We had got together late last year working on an event. The event had come together so quickly and easily that I realized there was something going here more than work. We got together on my birthday 1 year ago this Friday and within a week she had found that her cancer had spread. I stayed with her through it all, we made love every night as long as we could and she died in my arms surrounded by her close friends.
These are the only 2 women that are this open with me. The issue is that a lot of the time it is really hard to hear. I am a man. At times I feel really good that they trust me enough to tell me. Other times I wonder why are they sharing something with me that is so intimate. It can be painful. Don't they have any feelings?
I guess what I am asking is why would a woman share this information with a man.