How do you let a friend know his wife is cheating?
December 6, 2010 1:30 AM Subscribe
How does someone *completely* anonymously and seemingly randomly let a good friend know that his wife is cheating on him? It must come about in a way that seems more like plain bad luck rather than that she was ratted out...
posted by KiddAnnica to Human Relations (58 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
How does 'Friend A' completely anonymously let another friend (Husband) know that 'Husband's' wife is cheating on him? 'Friend A' found out that she'd been having another relationship for 4 years, and even came across pictures of her and the other guy on a swingers' website. 'Friend A' wants to let 'Husband' know but will only do so if it's:
A) completely anonymous and untraceable back to 'Friend A'
B) must seem to both 'Husband' and his wife that it was just random bad luck that 'Husband' discovered the infidelity. There can be no hint or suspicion of any third party being involved in any way.
C) prefer to avoid public humiliation of wife if possible
These are the parameters (appreciate replies according to these parameters only!), and am looking for the most creative and achievable suggestions. 'Friend A' has a few pics from the swingers' website of wife/lover together as evidence, but that's the only proof in his possession.
Completely appreciate difficulty involved, hence looking to the wisdom of askmefi!! Gratitude for your ideas on this unsavory task....