Love/Success: never the twain shall meet?
October 22, 2010 10:35 PM Subscribe
If you are a physically very attractive woman how did you meet the man you married?
posted by fantasticninety to human relations (72 answers total) 16 users marked this as a favorite
Disclaimer: let's describe physically attractive as simply meaning you've always had a lot of attention from men (more than your friends).
I'm a man in my early 30s and would like to meet someone in their mid 20s to marry and have children with. If this describes you, how did it happen for you and your husband (or if you're the man, how did you meet the true woman of your dreams) ?
Some details: I have a good career, am a musician on the side but don't depend on it for income, am relatively attractive, not in debt except for my mortgage, am physically fit, used to be very wild in my 20s but now am conservative and very responsible.
It may be asking too much but please give specifics about whether you were with someone at the time, where you first met them, what instigated the first conversation etc.
To explain: when I was in my 20s, I was completely reckless without regard to the future and had a huge selection of women; now that I'm extremely responsible this well has seemed to run dry. Should I join my local compost committee? What's a bad man turned good to do? Turn bad again? God forbid!