Am I weird for being this upset?
October 3, 2010 9:54 PM Subscribe
Am I weird for being this upset? Met up with co-worker I'm interested in.
posted by morning_television to Human Relations (33 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
We met up and spent all night talking, listening to music, drinking wine and being physical with each other. The day after, I was confused as to whether or not she was interested in me. We hung out and I asked her out and she declined. I was pretty upset over it. But I eventually felt I got over it. We kept hanging out just as friends and just casually spending time with each other. Except this time she's rather distant. (No hugs goodbye or anything physical).
I know for a fact that I'll meet more women and maybe even meet women who share more common interests but right now I don't have anybody. I think I'm becoming upset again over the whole situation. I feel like I'm bothered and angry over what happened. I feel stupid that I made myself so hung up over a night I spent with this person. And at times I catch myself constantly waiting for this person to suddenly have feelings for me. I feel really dumb for feeling this way and hope the next morning I'll forget all about it. I figured venting and talking about this would be helpful since I can't really confide in anyone and I really wouldn't want to because it's not really a big deal.
I just miss having those nights where you feel something for someone and you connect. That night I really felt like I was going to continue seeing her and felt like something to look forward to. I think I've just been really lonely lately and at night it's the worst. I also don't understand how people can just lead other people on and do certain things and expect the other person NOT to get attached. Am I weird for being this upset still?
Thanks for reading..