Getting past a stupid first
September 14, 2010 4:44 PM Subscribe
After questioning and coming to terms with my sexuality and yet a lower sex drive due to somewhat not sure causes (though I'm getting tests done out of curiosity), I was invited over for some fun.
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A couple of gay friends of mine (he and his bf) asked me about trying it out with them as a first time. When I got to their house, I was nervous. Plus besides that there was the thought of getting home earlier to avoid detection and also other worries as to my religion, family views.
They tried some bjs, hand jobs, and porn and even though I could get hard, I was really nervous and so I didn't finish even once even on my own. They got tired and gave up.
How do I get past this in my quest of personal discovery and not let this slow me down and make me requestion myself?