Bourbon at 8AM probably isn't the best solution
July 14, 2010 12:30 PM Subscribe
There's a girl I see often that I'd like to get to know better. Problem: I'm absolutely terrified on how to start.
posted by ConstantineXVI to human relations (27 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
I've started to take an interest in this girl that works at a coffee house that I tend to stop by on the way to work in the morning. She's usually sitting in the corner alone eating breakfast and reading around when I get there. She knows my name from being there so often, but that's about it. Being an introvert (as well as being fresh out of a relationship that broke down over communication issues), I'm having a very hard time bringing myself to make any sort of advance out of fear of a backfire. I don't really know what to say, and I don't know how to psyche myself into actually going through with it.