Crying after Sex
July 11, 2010 8:55 AM Subscribe
I usually cry the first time I have sex with someone. Does anyone have explanations for/experience with this?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (17 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
I am a 31 year old female with modest sexual experience. Since college I have been sexually active but these relationships have been short-lived or flings. There has also been long periods of time where I haven't been sexually active. I'm very sensitive, fitting the profile of "highly-sensitive person" to a T. Basically, the first time I have sex with a guy, I (usually) involuntarily cry afterwards and feel extremely sensitive. The guy usually gets a little freaked out (when he notices; sometimes I hide it/it's dark, etc). I don't know how to tell him what's wrong because I'm not sure myself. I've heard this happens to some women and I am just wondering if anyone here has experience with this, explanations, or advice?