"Taking it slow"
June 14, 2010 12:49 PM Subscribe
"Taking it slow" - What exactly does this mean in my situation?
posted by floweredfish to human relations (30 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I met this AMAZING guy. We are like, the same person and we've been on four dates (and have plans for a fifth this coming weekend). Last night I started to broach the "what are we" type subject and told him that I really like him a lot. He told me that he really likes me a lot too. I've point blank mentioned to him that I'm nervous about scaring him off. We have had sex a few times already and it's amazing.
So, what exactly does it mean then when he mentioned that he "is taking it slow?" This does not make sense (especially with the sex bit) and I'm trying to decipher things. Is this just another way of saying that he's just not that into me?
I know I need to calm down but it's SO difficult when he's just absolutely like, my dream guy.