Third wheel woes...
May 26, 2010 7:48 AM Subscribe
This girl (20's) and myself (guy in my 20's) have been planning this trip for her to come visit me for some time. I go to an east coast graduate school and she goes to my old college in the Midwest. She wants to check out the school for graduate potential and we've been pretty close friends for a few years (we were in the same major, took many classes together, hung out frequently). The plan was for her to come here and sleep at my place.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (27 answers total)
The date is coming up in a few months and she calls me to ask if she can bring her roommate along as well. Hey that's awesome! but wait...
I really like girl #1 and thought that some time alone with her would be a good gauge to see if I can move the friendship into a relationship.
I told her I had to call her back because I was at work, now I'm wondering if there's anyway that I can tell her that I would rather not have her third wheel friend come along without sounding like a douche.