Kissing on the 2nd Date
May 7, 2010 11:51 AM Subscribe
Is this moving too fast?
posted by anonymous to human relations (21 answers total) 4 users marked this as a favorite
Last night I went on a second date with a man that I met on an online dating site. After the evening's main activities we stopped by a local pub where there was conversation and canoodling. At one point he asked me if what we were doing was normal. When I asked him what he meant, he said that he didn't know if people usually kissed like this on the second date. These were not deep soul kisses; really just the occasional smooch lasting less than 10 seconds or so at a time since we were in public. I said that in my experience, kissing like this on a second date was "normal."
Now I'm wondering if my experience is abnormal. I'd love to hear if this sounds normal to you and when you do what (e.g. kiss on the first date, sex on the third date). I realize that this is different for everyone but this guy has got me worried that my perspective is somehow skewed.