How common is it for men to not masturbate?
April 19, 2010 6:11 AM Subscribe
How common is it for men to have the urge to not masturbate?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (15 answers total)
Out of curiosity the other day, I asked my boyfriend of two years if he ever masturbated outside of sexual intercourse since I've never seen him do so. He responded that he doesn't and of course I asked "why not?" and he said that he just never has the urge to and jokingly said that he has better things to do with his time (which he actually does, he has a lot of hobbies that he happily devotes a lot of his spare time to). It wasn't a serious discussion, just a quick, light-hearted question and answer session that lasted less than a minute. He is a very open and honest person so I know he's not lying, that isn't the issue. Not that I think there is anything wrong with him, but I was just wondering how common this is?
-We are very open sexually and have sex on a regular basis so he definitely has a strong sex drive. We are both GGG.
-He's late 30s, active, healthy, no health problems whatsoever.
-He knows I masturbate and look at porn (I am female). He doesn't own or watch porn either.
-He does masturbate to get his penis hard if we're engaging in sexual activities but that's the only time.