(not starchy) basic woven button-down dress shirts--and what keywords should I be using to look for them?
I'd like to find some women's woven long-sleeved button-down shirts (or XXS men's dress shirts) that are very soft to the touch, even to the point of feeling worn-in. Button-downs that are less "dressy" are okay as well (no button-down collar required).
Because of where I live I have to buy most of my clothing online, and I'm having trouble identifying what describes a soft dress shirt from web store descriptions.
Keywords I know are bad:
Poplin, linen, starched, chambray, oxford cloth, wrinkle-resistant, flannel, corduroy (all seem to mean things that are too thick, starchy, creased, heavy, or otherwise wrong)
I am also NOT
looking for the linen camp/epaulet/military-type shirt that has been popular lately--just a normal woven dress shirt, unusually soft.
I looked at this question, but I'm more interested in the "soft" part and less in the look that poster was going for.
Any ideas about
specific terms to use to find this kind of soft button-down? (e.g. types of cloth)
specific stores or items that might fit what I'm looking for?