Is it possible I got her pregnant through a few layers of clothing? (NSFW, YANAD, etc.)
I realize this sounds ridiculous. Please assume both of us have less than an average high-schoolers' level of sexual education (sad fact is, for various reasons, we both do). Google leads to a LOT of ambiguous "yes-you-can-no-you-can't-stupid" information and our heads are swimming a bit. The most reputable looking stuff we've found is here
, but maybe we just aren't googling the right terms.
Long story short: lots of making out and dry-humping. She had on panties and pajama bottoms, I had on some micro-fiber boxer shorts. She brought me to orgasm once, I was wet, and then we did it a second time a bit more vigorously, and at that point we were both pretty wet. Hard to say how much she was wet from me, or from herself. At no point did the clothes come off, or there was any direct contact other than through wet clothes - no penetration, nothing like that.
I know now I should have been wearing a condom, but this is the first time I ever thought of it, and the simple fact is that we made a mistake. I didn't think we could really be at risk with clothes on, but when she asked me the question, it kind of hit me.
We are wondering what the chances are that she could have become pregnant in this way.
She isn't on any kind of BC and taking the morning-after pill (its available where we are) would be a really HUGE deal for her mentally/emotionally. Of course, having an untimely pregnancy would be huger.
Do we have nothing to worry about? Should I push for the pill to be safe? Everything on wikipedia seems to indicate that there are no serious side-effects or negative health issues with it, but she's still pretty concerned.