I'm-going-to-want-a-baby-someday-filter: My mother had a ridiculous number of issues getting pregnant (inside). I'd like to do my best to prevent these issues, but realize most are inevitably genetic. I'm looking for various pieces of advice ...
To preface - I'm not planning to try for children for at least 5-7 years.
Here is my mother's story in her own words (for the tl;dr skip past the quote):
"Tried to get pregnant for a year. Sent to University hospital fertility clinic. Spent 4 years of taking my basal temperature every day. My periods were so painful I used to rock back in forth bed trying to get some relief. Endometriosis was burnt out 3 times via laparoscopy - on bladder, ovaries, uterus, and I can’t remember where else. I had 2-Hysterosalpingographies in 3 years. Took Danazol for 6 months (chemical menopause). Finally got pregnant with you 6 months later. Nursed you for a year with the hopes of keeping the endometriosis at bay. We hoped I could get pregnant easier. Ended up at University Hospital again, this time they decided to put me on a Clomid, a fertility drug. After 2 years of that nasty drug I gave up. Dr decided to burn out the endometriosis again. When he got in with the laparoscope he found a 5 week old ectopic pregnancy, almost ready to burst. I had no indications to that fact. He had to open me up, to clean out my fallopian tube, but saved it. Dr kept monitoring the endometriosis, and in 1997 I developed fibroids. In a little over 6 months one of the fibroids was the size of a 6-month pregnancy. Dr said it needed to come out, so I had a complete hysterectomy and ophrectomy. The fertility drug I had taken had been studied and found to cause ovarian cancer if taken longer than a year. Combined with the fact my Aunt died of ovarian cancer sealed the case for an ophrectomy."
My questions:
YANMD, but from personal experience, which of these issues am I going to have a possibility of having problems with? Looking for either scientific or anecdotal evidence here.
YANMD, but is there anything I can do now to make getting pregnant later easier? I was on
Depo Provera for about 6 months almost a year ago and it completely screwed up my menstrual cycle (I was spotting daily for months, even after dropping off of all forms of bc). I'm now on
Portia and things seem to be finally back to normal. I'm slightly overweight but in shape and active. I eat well.
Has this been confirmed for you by a genetic counselor? Or an OB/GYN? Because I am neither, and neither are you, and the lay person's seat-of-the-pants assessment of what is genetic (and/or heritable) and what is not is not something you should be making your life plans around.
posted by Sidhedevil at 6:55 PM on November 17, 2009