First of all, thank you for your answers so far – both in this thread and to my e-mail. I wanted to elaborate on a few points.
When I spoke to the lawyer, it was just for an initial consultation. He basically told me that I don’t have much to worry about, and he didn’t offer to come with me to speak to the police. He said that if I was charged, I could call him back and he would help me with the court case. Should I call him back? Call a different lawyer?
The main reason that I was looking to avoid charges is the issue of having a criminal record. I know what I did was wrong, and I am willing to do what it takes to make this right – community service, apology letters, donations to charity, etc. However, having any sort of criminal record would seriously hurt my career options, since I plan on working in healthcare and have been working towards this goal for years. I would honestly rather spend a few days in jail than have a criminal background that might completely screw up my future. On top of this, I mentor at-risk children and am training to become a suicide crisis line volunteer – and I need a clear criminal background check for these activities. Being able to support others in this way does mean a lot to me.
Is there any way I might be able to serve my punishment without getting a criminal record? I would be willing to meet with the police every week to update them on my behaviour, since I know they need records to keep track of offenses.
jayder: in Canada, it’s the police that press charges rather than the merchant, so regardless of whether the merchant wants to prosecute, it’s ultimately up to the police. The attorney I spoke to didn’t mention anything about such unwritten practices when he told me about my options, but maybe I should speak to a different one.
sophist: yes, I had left the store. I agree that I deserve to be punished, I’m just really concerned about having a record. In Canada diversion programs show up as a withdrawn charge on your record, which is still something.
Thanks again for all your advice.
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You might want to talk to a lawyer. As long as this is your first offense, you won't go to jail or anything, but seriously, you did steal, so you probably shouldn't expect to get off scot-free no matter how cooperative you are.
posted by oinopaponton at 11:00 AM on October 24