What to talk about - Do's and Don'ts meeting up with the ex's dumper friend?
August 26, 2009 8:50 AM Subscribe
What to talk about - do's and don'ts on a meeting up with a good friend of the person who broke my heart quite badly a few months ago?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (8 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I am meeting up tonight with a good girl-friend of the man who broke my heart quite badly and "used" me for some time.
I don't want to create a bad impression , appearing/ talking too happy, or too hurt, or too indiferent etc, about my ex / (her friend )when I meet up with her as she is a good person and I like to keep / start a nice friendship as we were about to just before my broken up with her friend.
I need to emphasise that I am not interested in getting back with the dumper at all, just want to keep my ex's friend friendship.
I feel hurt still about the person who hurt me but I am moving on with my life quite well lately, and as it has been a few months since the broken up I am not as emotional any more. This may allow me to talk about different things , but whn the question arises about my ex situation/ broken up what it would be the best way to approach/ answer the question?
I know I should act natural, but I'd like to have some more ideas, Thank you.