Hook-up: Good. Feelings after hook-up: bad.
May 27, 2009 1:54 PM Subscribe
So I got a little action this weekend with a friend of a friend (yay!). I gave him my phone number, etc., but don't really think I'll ever see him again. How do I keep myself from feeling down about that?
posted by ocherdraco to human relations (27 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
It isn't as though I've been rejected, it's more that the whole thing was a lark, and seems pretty self-contained (a bunch of people who don't know each other stay together in a house for a weekend; crazy things happen; then everyone goes back to their lives). But now, the euphoria of the moment itself has worn off, and I find myself feeling, on a smaller scale, the same emotions I feel when I've been dumped.
How do I get myself to just enjoy that a good hook-up happened?