Soul mates splitting
May 19, 2009 4:17 PM Subscribe
How to say goodbye to someone you love?
posted by Direwolf to human relations (21 answers total) 4 users marked this as a favorite
I am coming to the end of a relationship with a woman that I love more than I have ever cared for anyone. She is in a divorce, has two little kids, going to college, has a job, etc... and claims that she can't be in a relationship with me now. She also says that she wants me to go out and have kids, get married, etc... but still says that she cares for me the same way I care for her. Its pretty confusing to me...So she really won't talk to me much anymore, just when she feels like she is losing things. It is hard for me to say goodbye because of my attachment to her, although I am trying...But when it seems like I am moving on she will send messages about still wanting to be together. Well to make a long story short and confusing, she loves me, won't be in a relationship with me, wants me to move on, but keeps contacting me. Whats the best way to handle things? To me, the only option that looks like it is going to work is to end our contact/relationship and move on with our lives. This minimal contact is very stressful, sad, and causing too much anxiety. The only hard part is I really do love her, never felt like this for anyone, ever, don't want to give up, and to have her in my life fully would be amazing...