Also, my hairy legs mean that I have "failed at being a woman."
April 11, 2009 9:19 PM Subscribe
How do you deal with a crazy person's total hostility?
posted by liketitanic to human relations (14 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
is in the psych ward again, which is good, and he's getting good care, which is good.
But he's acting like a caged animal and says a lot of nasty abusive shit to me. I KNOW that he doesn't really know what he's saying and that it's not his fault. But I'm having trouble not taking his bait and not being hurt by it. Like when he says that I must really love this (being here with him) because it's easier than holding down a job. Or that I lie to him. Or that I don't keep promises to him.
How do I react to him, and how do I react in my mind? It hurts.