I want to turn a FWB into a girlfriend. She doesn't. Should I end it altogether?
April 5, 2009 11:11 AM Subscribe
Me to my FWB: "How do you feel about a long-term relationship?" Her: "Sometimes I think, 'Not in a million years...'
posted by thelettere to human relations (24 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
...and at other times I think 'Maybe'."
I want a long term relationship. She obviously doesn't. Should I end this relationship altogether?
I am concerned about being in a relationship where there is an inequality in desire. I am concerned about becoming resentful of the lack of reciprocity of feelings.
Can anyone share their experiences of being in this type of situation?
Every time I've been in this type of relationship, either if I liked them more or if they liked me more, it has ended badly.
Having said that, we have a ball every time we see each other and she doesn't attempt to hide her excitement when I tell her I'm going to stop by(we live a while away). I will miss her greatly and she will not be happy if/when I tell her this is over.