Should I join the D.A.R.
March 2, 2009 10:04 AM Subscribe
Is joining the D.A.R. worth it? Are there any cool benefits? Is it lame?
posted by anonymous to grab bag (18 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
I found out a couple of years ago that I have ancestors that fought in the Revolutionary War, making me eligible to join the Daughters of the American Revolution. I'm thinking of joining. They offer scholarships (though most don't require membership or anything), and supposedly it's a good way to network with other women. I plan on going into law, so I've been joining different organizations with hopes of meeting people for professional purposes.
However, I'm a very liberal person living in the south who comes from a blue-collar background (read: I don't have much money). I'm not sure if I'll fit in at all, or get to really network with anyone remotely like-minded. As in, I show up to the meeting and it's all conservative old bitties and wealthy "proper" southern girls. The racism in the D.A.R.'s past also concerns me. I've done some research and it seems that they truly don't discriminate at all but if anyone has found this not to be the case, I'd definitely like to know!
Obviously, if I don't like it, I can quit. But it costs money to join, and I want membership to be worth it.
Any personal experiences are appreciated.