As a Type I diabetic, the two risks of 1) passing the genes for diabetes through the population and to your child at a 100% greater risk than in the general population and 2) pregnancy-induced retinopathy (which could eventually lead to blindness) make me seriously doubt whether pregnancy is a viable option. How did other people think about these issues, and what made the difference in making this choice?
I have Type I (juvenile, insulin-dependent) diabetes; I’ve had it sine 1985. Over the past ten years at least, I’ve been very well-controlled – when I was in highschool and college, I struggled with it, and didn’t keep great control then. I’ve used an insulin pump for almost three years now. My A1cs have been under 6.5 for at least three years straight now, and the only complication I have yet experienced is a case of
trigger finger, which cleared up with a cortisone shot a while ago and hasn’t yet come back. I’m otherwise pretty healthy, though I need to go more exercise than I do.
I’ve been doing a lot of research lately about Type I diabetes and pregnancy. I know that many diabetic women can – and do – have healthy biological children. But there are two issues that I can’t really decide how to think about. I’d love input both from diabetic women who’ve thought about these things, whether they decided to have children or not and anyone who has some good insight into these. I think, in the end, the choice of whether or not to go down that road has to do with an individual’s personal risk tolerance – but I’d greatly welcome insight from others to help inform my thinking.
The first issue is the issue of transmitting the disease. Leaving aside the question of whether I have a responsibility not to pass my genes on in the gene pool (which I do consider), I am concerned about the likelihood of passing the disease on to a child – and how I would manage to deal with the consequences of having done so. The ADA’s web site
compiles the statistics conveniently: in my case, I am older than 25 (risk to child: 1/100), but I developed the disease before age 11 (doubles the risk – 1/50). I do not believe that I have type 2 polyglandular autoimmune syndrome – although, I don’t actually know – which would make the risk 50%. 1 in 50 is a 2% risk; that’s as low as the risk of a child developing AIDS if the mother has AIDS if proper preventative measures are used. It’s the approximate risk of a child developing Downs for a mother age 42-43. The risk of a child having Type I in the general population, however, is 0.0037% - 0.02%. Which, if I’m doing my math right, means that by having a child myself, I would be increasing the risk of my child having this disease
one hundred times. How could I justify that as a parent? Isn’t my job to always strive for the best health and safety options for a child? In that case, how can I expose a child to one hundred times more risk of a disease that I find extremely arduous and difficult – and one that has scary consequences? Also,
anecdotally,, most biological mothers with Type I that I have encountered have at least one child with Type I.
The second issue is the health risk to me. The complication of diabetes I fear most is blindness. When I initially examined the idea of pregnancy with my endocrinologist, she mentioned that if I wanted to do that, we would need to keep a close watch on my vision because the one thing they see in pregnancy is eye complications – ‘even in women who haven’t had them before.’ I
researched the issue a lot – and I’ve come up divided. Some articles say that pregnancy will result in retinopathy even in women without pre-existing eye damage; some say that good control is key and you can get through pregnancy without damaging your eyes. Part of me thinks that even a small risk of causing damage to my eyes isn’t worth it. But then, still other
articles say I’m going to get retinopathy anyway, no matter what I do. And then, the other part of me says – if I’m going to get it anyway, well, then this is a non-issue.
How did people think about these issues? What really made the difference to you? (In the interests of full disclosure, I’m not even sure I want to have children in the first place – but I figure I should try to work this stuff out as soon as I can, and if we do decide we want to have kids, we’ll also have to decide whether we want to try for bio-kids or adopt.)
My husband has Type 1.
posted by hellboundforcheddar at 10:05 AM on January 30