My problems with ADHD have reached the point where my employer of two years wants me to fill out paperwork requesting "reasonable accommodations" through the Americans with Disabilities Act. What now?
I'm in my mid-twenties, and I love my job. I've been working at least part-time since high school, so I'm no wide-eyed infant when it comes to employment. My current job, however, is my first serious full-time non-temp job out of college, is perfect for me at this time in my life, and losing it would feel catastrophic.
Regardless, my status here has been precarious since day one. I was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago (my senior year of college) and have been on Adderall since then. It's helped me tremendously, but I still have problems - particularly with time management (I'm frequently late, to the point where I've missed several important meetings and trainings) and disorganization. Since I've arrived, my initial probationary period was extended by 30 days, I've received a verbal warning, two written warnings, and I've been put on an "improvement plan." The consensus is that I'm fantastic when I'm there and working, and so far my talents have outweighed my deficits, but the problems can't continue.
I'd actually been doing much better for several months, but then I decided to try some different ADHD meds, which was a big mistake - they didn't work well at all, so for August and September I was essentially unmedicated, and everything fell apart again. I had a meeting last week with my boss and her boss, and they requested I fill out ADA paperwork . This includes a section for my doctor to complete, and also a section where I can ask for "reasonable accommodations" for my disability.
So, my questions, because I'm pretty baffled by this process. Would speaking to a lawyer be worthwhile? Will this have unpleasant consequences far in the future, especially if I want to go into a medical field? What reasonable accommodations are...reasonable? I'm really not sure what to ask for. Like many people with ADHD, I've been beating myself up for so long that I find it odd to think of myself as having a disability that deserves accommodation in the first place. A more flexible schedule seems like an obvious request, but much of my day involves meeting with clients during specific hours, so I can't do much there. I should also mention that we're very short-staffed and they definitely want to keep me, as long as I can keep my shit together.
If it matters, I'm in all kinds of treatment - individual CBT therapy, group DBT therapy, meds, plus everything I can think of on my own. I'm definitely not complacent about my problems, which makes all this especially discouraging and scary.
If anyone has any experience with or insight into a situation like this, please share your thoughts. This is in California, if it matters. Throwaway e-mail account: adhdada@gmail.com. Thank you!
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posted by gjc at 4:23 PM on November 2, 2008