Does my female partner need to know about past relationship abortions?
September 26, 2008 12:42 PM Subscribe
Should I tell my girlfriend about the abortion in my past relationship?
posted by anonymous account to human relations (45 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I have been in a relationship for about 8 years now.
Should I tell my partner about the abortion that one of my previous girlfriends had after I impregnated her? This was about 10 or 11 years ago at this point. I do not have any contact with the previous girl, and have not since we broke up (well before I began dating current girl).
Would she want to know about this? Would she care about something that happened that long ago? It's not something that I think about that much or have any regrets about at all, but it seems strange sometimes to have that one big secret.