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	<title>Comments on: Can I have my creative cake and eat it too?</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 22:47:54 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>Question: Can I have my creative cake and eat it too?</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too</link>	
		<description>Working writers:  how do you carve out time for fiction?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Here&apos;s a question for working writers.  I&apos;ve managed to turn my passion into a full-time life as a freelance writer.  I do corporate stuff, copywriting and marketing pieces, journalism, and I&apos;m thrilled to be working for myself at something I adore.  My real passion, however, is fiction, and like so many others, my real aspiration is to complete and sell the novels that have been niggling at me for years.  &lt;br&gt;
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Trouble is, at the end of the day it&apos;s really difficult to transition from non-fiction to fiction and from have-to-I-get-paid to want-to-so-I&apos;m-disciplined work.  I find myself using my sore wrists and zonked brain as an excuse...and I&apos;m starting to get scared that I&apos;ll never achieve my dream of being a working &lt;i&gt;novelist&lt;/i&gt;.   &lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;m wondering how other writers approach this dilemma.  Is &quot;suck it up&quot; the only answer, or are there some tips/tidbits/tweaks I&apos;m missing?</description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 22:33:08 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: philip-random</title>
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		<description>&quot;Write fiction three hours a day six days a week.  More important than exercise, family or income.&quot;  Words I got from a Creative Writing instructor many moons ago.</description>
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		<title>By: Jahaza</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467732</link>	
		<description>I&apos;ve worked as a different kind of writer, but I&apos;ve found the following books interesting... First, &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0226115046/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/&quot;&gt;Enemies of Promise&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; by Cyril Connolly.  He talks about what makes a book last and what keeps people from writing one, or at least what kept him from writing one of the kind he wanted to.  Second, &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0813206464/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/&quot;&gt;The Intellectual Life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; by A. G. Sertillanges, O.P.  The latter has an extensive religious element to it, but also offers a lot of practical and commonsense advice about how not to stifle creativity, how to get the intellectual food you really need, how to stay physically healthy (and why it&apos;s important) and sane while being a writer or scholar etc.  How to plan your day to get the maximum productivity.&lt;br&gt;
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I also offer the book that persuaded me I wasn&apos;t supposed to be a novelist... &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0393320030/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/&quot;&gt;On Becoming A Novelist&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; by John Gardner.  This book seems to have encouraged a lot of people in writing fiction, but it discouraged me... which I believe was the right result.</description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 23:06:47 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Bookhouse</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467733</link>	
		<description>&lt;em&gt;Trouble is, at the end of the day it&apos;s really difficult to transition from non-fiction to fiction and from have-to-I-get-paid to want-to-so-I&apos;m-disciplined work.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;ve had this problem as well. Two things: maybe try getting up in the morning and writing fiction first-thing, as opposed to waiting all day and feeling guilty. Also, be sure that this isn&apos;t just an excuse for a deeper kind of procrastination based on fear, anxiety or something like that (which is often the case, I&apos;ve found in my own life and talking to other writers). Maybe instead of trying a surface-level fix, try to figure out why you want badly to write fiction and yet you do not. And if you figure that one out, let me know the answer.</description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 23:07:55 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: greenland</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467736</link>	
		<description>My predominant task at work is writing stuff, as well, although I could give a shit about what I write at work, which may not be the case for you.&lt;br&gt;
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However! The two things that really give me a spark to write some fiction are:&lt;br&gt;
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1.) Writing group. My friends and I have a weekly (sometimes more) writing group that&apos;s focused solely on our fiction projects, and that spurs me on to have something to present every time.&lt;br&gt;
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2.) Turning off the video game system.</description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 23:17:16 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: sharkfu</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467758</link>	
		<description>A good book for motivation:  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0446691437/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/&quot;&gt;The War of Art&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 01:11:00 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: mmoncur</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467783</link>	
		<description>As a working writer, my theory is that my brain only has so much capacity for writing. If I spend all day writing for a deadline, I&apos;m going to be drained and writing for fun is going to be like pulling teeth. On the other hand, if I spend the day doing non-writing stuff, I&apos;ll have an urge to write like crazy and end up writing lengthy AskMefi answers.&lt;br&gt;
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Based on that theory, here are three possibilities:&lt;br&gt;
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1. Try adding more non-writing work to your plate if it&apos;s possible. You&apos;re freelance, so you can find freelance activities that aren&apos;t strictly &quot;writing&quot; - editing, proofreading, or web design for example.&lt;br&gt;
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2. Try doing creative things that aren&apos;t writing. I&apos;m currently learning to play the guitar, and I&apos;m still passionate about that no matter what I&apos;ve been working on all day. It won&apos;t get your novels finished, but it might help you feel more creative.&lt;br&gt;
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3. The third solution, I suppose, would be to increase the amount of total writing capacity of your brain. I&apos;ve never succeeded at that, but I suspect the secret is to gradually increase the amount you&apos;re doing. Start forcing yourself to write fiction for 30 minutes a day, and when that gets easy, increase it to 1 hour.&lt;br&gt;
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I still think your best bet is to use less of your writing capacity on your day job so you have some left over for novels.&lt;br&gt;
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Best of luck.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 03:19:21 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Happy Dave</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467855</link>	
		<description>I&apos;d recommend Metafilter&apos;s own jscalzi&apos;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.scalzi.com/whatever&quot;&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt; - he writes regularly about this sort of thing as he&apos;s gone from a primarily non-fiction/corporate writer to a nearly-full-time novelist.  Drop him an email, he might be able to point you to relevant entries or even write one specifically about your issue, he&apos;s a cool guy.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 07:56:43 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: PhoBWanKenobi</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467864</link>	
		<description>You might consider entering an MFA program. As a writer in one, I&apos;m often wary about recommending them to people, but if you have the funds (or are able to get funding), I think they&apos;re really great for people like you who want time to write. You&apos;ll have two or three years devoted almost wholly to writing, even if you have a Teaching Assistantship (I do, and it&apos;s max ~15 hours of work a week). At my program, you have to be really dedicated and determined to get writing done and not use the time here to socialize, but I can say that I managed to bash out half of a manuscript this summer while also doing summer teaching. You&apos;d likely have to give up--or at least do less--freelance for the time you&apos;d be in a program, but at the end you could definitely have a novel draft, which would put you a step closer to your goal. It&apos;s not for everyone, but it&apos;s something to consider.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 08:36:00 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: EmpressCallipygos</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467865</link>	
		<description>I&apos;m kind of trying to BECOME you -- I&apos;m doing a non-writing thing for the &quot;day job&quot;, and am JUUUUUUST starting to take on freelance stuff.  I do already have one gig that&apos;s kind of exhaustive -- I write the study guides for a theater company in Pennsylvania, but that&apos;s just four times a year, and I wanted to branch out more.  &lt;br&gt;
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One book I found to be tremendously encouraging was Stephen King&apos;s memoir ON WRITING.  Whatever your opinion on Stephen King, he does go into his development as a writer at great length, and gives a LOT of advice about how to structure your day and carve out the time for what you want to do; he&apos;s also very, very encouraging without being overly-optimistic (he dissects the career path of a new writer he knows, to give the reader an accurate picture of what &quot;becoming a successful fiction writer&quot; actually looks like).  &lt;br&gt;
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I read it when I was fretting about never finding the time to write my own stuff alongside the study guides -- because they do take a lot out of me -- and got to a passage where he suggests that when you&apos;re starting out, try shooting for a goal of 1,000-2,000 words a day; I saw that, thought &quot;say, that&apos;s not that bad,&quot; and it was the impetus to get me sitting down and writing, which is half the battle.  &lt;br&gt;
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Fiction writing is actually what he&apos;s geared towards, in fact; but it&apos;s encouraging and practical enough that I took something from it and I don&apos;t even write fiction myself.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 08:40:49 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: JustKeepSwimming</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467879</link>	
		<description>Never underestimate the value of a writing buddy. I haven&apos;t found writer&apos;s groups to be successful, but having one friend with whom you have a mutual deadline society is great. &lt;br&gt;
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Also, deadlines in general are great. I&apos;m lucky enough in my career as a playwright that I can call a theatre, ask if they&apos;ll be willing to do a reading, they set up a time and place, and then I have to come through with a play by that time. I imagine novels would be harder, as you wouldn&apos;t have a group of people depending on you to finish something.&lt;br&gt;
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Which brings me back to the mutual deadline society. &lt;br&gt;
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Also, seconding &lt;em&gt;On Writing&lt;/em&gt;. It&apos;s a really good book.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:01:53 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: drjimmy11</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467899</link>	
		<description>There are a lot of great books about writing (and some not so great ones), but I don&apos;t think that&apos;s what you need right now.&lt;br&gt;
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I think you just need to get up earlier and writer before work. That is what I do. After working a 10+ hour day including commute, there is just NO FREAKING WAY I am going to write anything of substance when I get home. Even on weekends, I try to write first thing- once I do something else, anything else, I just can&apos;t get the same level of concentration on writing.&lt;br&gt;
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Also, don&apos;t beat yourself up- self-motivation is a very very hard thing.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:39:16 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: PatoPata</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467900</link>	
		<description>My business requires me to write a lot, and when I want to work on one of my own projects the only thing that works for me is to pile up some money and then tell my clients that I have a &quot;big project&quot; and &quot;won&apos;t be available&quot; for a chunk of time. Usually I do that for only short periods (a month here or there), but it helps.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:40:25 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: drjimmy11</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467904</link>	
		<description>but since we are talking writing books, I can&apos;t say enough good things about &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0307269191/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/&quot;&gt;Haruki Murakami&apos;s &quot;What I Talk About When I talk about Running&quot;&lt;/a&gt;. He talks about how being a long-distance runner helps him be a novelist, and about writing as a physical ordeal- which I think is one of the most important and under-reported aspects of being a serious writer.&lt;br&gt;
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It&apos;s also an incredibly readable, entertaining, and at times profound book, which isn&apos;t surprising considering the author.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:43:14 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: jacquilynne</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467906</link>	
		<description>I&apos;ve been working lately on the idea that I must write 100 words a day that&apos;s not a blog comment or my work or an email. It can be a blog entry, but only if it&apos;s one I take some time to craft. I track chains of daily writing on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.joesgoals.com&quot;&gt;Joe&apos;s Goals&lt;/a&gt; and try not to break the chain. &lt;br&gt;
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Of course, rare is the day when I write precisely 100 words, because in the 100 words I force myself to write, I shift mindsets and get into the idea of writing on my personal projects. You might do better with a different number -- 500, perhaps. Even if it doesn&apos;t change your frame of mind, at least you got 500 words done, which is 500 more than you had before.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:44:18 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Fuzzy Monster</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1467986</link>	
		<description>I have a friend who works in advertising as a copywriter.  What he does is he wakes up at five in the morning, writes his own stuff for an hour, then goes to work.&lt;br&gt;
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If you&apos;re too tired to write your own stuff at the end of the day, then write it at the beginning of the day.  Problem solved!</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 12:23:44 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: jscalzi</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1468108</link>	
		<description>I wrote &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0765317710/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/&quot;&gt;my first novel&lt;/a&gt; while I had a full-time writing job at America Online. I did it by writing on the weekends and using time after work during the week &lt;em&gt;thinking &lt;/em&gt;about what I was going to write when I sat down at the computer on Saturday. It took me three months to write the novel that way, writing roughly 5,000 words (or about one chapter) a weekend. You&apos;ll find your own native writing speed, but taking time on the weekend to write is a good way to balance getting writing done and not feeling exhausted from your day-to-day writing. &lt;br&gt;
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Aside from this, I&apos;ve noticed that when one stops watching television, lots of time seems to magically open up.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 15:22:22 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Kattullus</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1468432</link>	
		<description>I&apos;ve written a novel (currently working on third revision) and it&apos;s taken me nearly three years. I write very, very slowly. The only way I&apos;ve written as much as I have is that I go to caf&#233;s and just sit there, staring at pieces of paper (or reading source material) until I&apos;ve gotten some words down.&lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;m not saying that you necessarily need to go to a caf&#233; but you should find a type of place you like to go for a few hours and write.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 00:25:50 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: mynameisluka</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/101027/Can-I-have-my-creative-cake-and-eat-it-too#1470481</link>	
		<description>Thank you, everyone, for your advice!</description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 07:20:41 -0800</pubDate>
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