I Can't Get Off, So How Can I Cool Down?
August 26, 2008 5:49 AM Subscribe
A problem with female masturbation.
posted by anonymous to Health & Fitness (23 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I'm a 26 year old woman and I can't masturbate to orgasm. Doesn't happen. With a partner, there's no problem at all. But on my own? There's no release. Let's just take it as given that I can't come from masturbation. Maybe some other day I'll try to fix that but for now it's just a limitation.
I still like to masturbate, though. The problem is that, without any release, I can't find any comfortable way to stop masturbating. After some time, I just want to stop but my body wants me to keep going and going until I'm sore, stiff, sticky, and sweaty in all the bad ways. It's like an itch I can't scratch.
I want to masturbate, even though I can't orgasm. I also want to be able to stop masturbating comfortably when I get tired with it. So what can get me to calm down, physically, after I've done it as much as I want?
The cliche for guys is to take a cold shower. What could help me get my body to stop itching for more?